Ok, you’ve probably heard that Laundromats are great pick up places, better than a singles bar – that’s because they are! Maybe not better, but certainly a great alternative that’s just as good. You can pretend your entire motive is to wash clothes, and that you’re not on the make. The woman won’t have that feeling like you’re just trying to pick her up if you strike up a chat here
– even if that’s exactly what you’re doing!
What really helps you out here is that women like to talk, and they love to give
advice – especially to “helpless” men! First of all, pick a good Laundromat –
meaning one where you’ve seen lots of attractive women who aren’t dragging a
bunch of kids with them or wearing wedding rings. Basically, pick one in a
neighborhood with lots of young, single women – they’ll be using the Laundromat
close to home. And don’t worry if you already have a washing machine at home,
it’s worth the trip out and a little change to meet women! If you meet someone
that eventually makes it back to your place and discovers you have a machine at
home, just tell her it was broken, or better yet, be honest and say you went to
the Laundromat hoping to meet someone, and that was the best decision you ever
made because you met her.
But let’s back up, first you’ve got to meet her! So go to the Laundromat with
your basket of clothes – no detergent. Make sure you don’t bring anything a
woman might find disgusting – like really dingy, holey underwear, badly stained
T-shirts, or socks that used to be white but now look like you walked through
mud in them. However, something slightly stained won’t hurt – like a grass stain
on your jeans or chocolate sauce on a shirt. You can use this later to help with
the conversation
Go in, plop your laundry basket down on a machine near one or more ladies you
wouldn’t mind picking up, and start digging through the basket like you’re
looking for something. Then say out loud to yourself, “Oh, man, I forgot the
detergent!” Laundromats usually have a vending machine selling detergent, so go
over and start browsing. Act like you don’t know which one to pick, then go to
the woman you want to chat up and say, “Excuse me, they don’t have my regular
detergent here and I don’t know what to use. Can you help me pick one out?”
Women can’t resist an opportunity to give advice, and they love the idea that
men might be helpless when it comes to some chores, like laundry. This is where,
if you’ve got the grass stain or whatever, you can bring that up and say you
don’t know what to do to get it out. She may come over and show you how to rub
detergent on the stain, etc. After you get the detergent, go back to your
machine, fumble around, and go back to her and say, “I’m sorry to keep bothering
you, but these machines are different than what I’m used to and I don’t know
what setting to use. Could you give me a hand? I’m sorry to seem so helpless.”
Milk the helpless bit for all it’s worth. Ask her how much detergent to use,
what colors you can wash together, and what temperature to set the water at –
whatever you can think of.
Also, if the Laundromat doesn’t have a vending machine for detergent, ask the
woman if you can borrow some of hers. Insist on paying her back by paying for
her washing or dryer use. Either way, once you’ve got her talking, keep chatting
about clothes as long as that stays interesting – once it starts to get lame and
boring, ditch the topic! Make sure and introduce yourself and get her name, then
start asking her about herself. Find out where she works, what she does for fun,
what movies or bands she likes, what her favorite types of food are. You can use
that info as she’s packing up her clothes to leave – Say, “Thanks so much for
the help. I’d love to pay you back by taking you out for some Italian food (or
going to hear that band you like, or see that movie you said you’d been dying to
see.)”
And one last thing, be ready with an explanation of why you’re using this
particular Laundromat if it’s not in your neighborhood, just in case she asks.
Make sure you pick one that’s not too far from home, and just say the one in
your neighborhood was full and you didn’t want to wait for a machine. Now grab
some change, a pile of dirty clothes, and get ready to bag that babe!
If you’ve found this free tip interesting and want to learn more about exactly
how to talk to women and what to say, check out Rachel’s website >
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